Ready for your better-than-porn life?
END THE STRUGGLE OF COMPULSIVE PORN USE AND GROW INTO TRUE SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY.
Introducing...
NEVERTHELESS
The premier program for sexual self-mastery and healing
For men who want to heal the cause of compulsive patterns... without shame and punishment.
RESOLVE BELIEFS DRIVING UNWANTED PORN-USE, MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR SEXUAL SELF, AND FINALLY LIVE ACCORDING TO YOUR UNIQUE SEXUAL VALUES
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A personalized blueprint for healing
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Layers of (shame-free) accountability
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Personalized coaching and education
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And a group of like-minded men stepping into their sexual power alongside you
You know the solo struggle, and the sobriety accountability group...
But chances are both options have left you feeling deflated and ashamed after yet another slip-up.
- Recommitting to willpower (again) gets exhausting.
- Confessing and trying to humbly accept the punishment may have left you with lingering resentment.
- And the truth is, you don't want to trade in your phone to feel like you can keep your word.
You've gotten tired of feeling like you always have to keep yourself in check... but you genuinely want to get this habit under control and feel in charge of your sexual decisions.
There's a way to step out of the struggle for good.
How would it feel to...
Know exactly what your sexual values are and know you are living in line with what feels good to you personally?
Honestly understand what role pornography plays in your life and consciously decide what role (if any) you want it to play moving forward?
Stay in your own power, self-worth, and confidence whether you've reached your sobriety goals yet or not?
Bring your best self to your relationships instead of facing endless conflict when you make a mistake?
Learn more about yourself with each sexual experience (with curiosity and love instead of shame)?
Have a strong sense of fearless sexuality... and confidence you're using it to bring good to yourself and others?
This is all possible for you
Inside this personalized, values-focused coaching program.
In case we haven't met...
I'm Taylor Chambers. I'm the creator of the Porn-Resilient Model, the Porn-Resilient Parenting course, NEVERTHELESS (a program to create a better-than-porn life), and the Porn-Resilient Expert Summit.
For years, I took an addiction approach to treating clients with unwanted porn use. Sometimes things worked out well. But other times I was disappointed with the results.
Many clients either avoided pornography for long stretches (only to fall apart when they made a misstep) or couldn't lengthen periods of sobriety at all, which only compounded the shame.
Either way, an overwhelming amount were still stuck as captives of their unwanted sexual behavior.
Eventually, I decided I needed to change something drastic about the way I was helping men try to make peace with their sexuality.
I studied the great minds of psychology and behavioral change (not to mention philosopher, preachers, and poets)... eventually creating a unique approach that honors your individual values and empowers you to reclaim ownership of your decisions - sexual or otherwise.
I'm here to show you how.
Are you ready to embrace a more nuanced, personalized path to sexual mastery and healing?
You're in the right place!
With this unique approach, I help men that feel stuck... until they embraced their true sexual strength and owned their personal values.
NEVERTHELESS
Program Details
There are four components that set this program apart from the rest.
IN-DEPTH EDUCATION
CONSISTENT COACHING
GUIDED COMMUNITY
PERSONALIZED FOCUS
IN-DEPTH EDUCATION
You've probably heard you ought to get a therapist... but coming from me (coach and therapist), there's probably something you need first:
Education.
You may already have some knowledge when it comes to the addict/betrayal perspective, but that's one perspective in a vast ocean of ways you can interpret the experience you're having with porn.
NEVERTHELESS provides you with 12+ hours of education, exploring where your beliefs around porn and sexuality originated from and why the solutions you've tried in the past haven't stuck.
You'll learn foundational skills like mindfulness applied to sexual urges, intermediate principles like personal value identification, and advanced techniques like permission and wise restraint.
This education and context is the piece that's been missing.
CONSISTENT COACHING
Get consistent coaching from Taylor Chambers, LMFT. Over a decade of experience specific to unwanted porn use... at a fraction of the cost of paying for a therapist long enough to see results.
The right coach (for you) can change the trajectory of your life and halve the time it takes to find your footing and make real progress.
With coaching up to twice weekly, "slip-ups" will cease to be devastating. Instead, each sexual experience - intentional or not - will be a stepping stone to a rich sexual life that's lived on your terms.
Weekly Coaching Schedule
Two group coaching meetings each week
- The first focused on small group discussion and topic-focused coaching. 12 rotating subjects to ensure you don't miss a thing and your implementation is deep in each principle.
- The second specific to your current personal focus of growth. I'll teach you how to productively work toward your specific goals (broken down into daily tasks and milestones), then coach you along the way.
These group meetings are not your typical porn-recovery processing meetings.
We shake up the old energy, dig deep into challenging what's stuck and have honest discussion that promotes actual change.
GUIDED COMMUNITY
You've probably heard that your upper limit is determined by the 10 people you spend the most time with...
The communities you engage with as you grow out of compulsive porn use are critical.
They can either help you feel totally supported in the misery of victimhood you've created for yourself (and keep you stuck there permanently)...
Or they can lift you up above the drama where you can finally access real growth.
The one thing that unites all members of the NEVERTHELESS community is a commitment to growth - even when it looks very different for each individual.
PERSONALIZED FOCUS
There are two extremes in the world of porn addiction work:
1. With a therapist, your work is as personalized as it gets, but it often lacks the education and structure you need.
2. Most programs give you a solid structure and good education, but they lack any personalized focus.
And considering each individual has different values around sexuality, life circumstances, upbringing and religious background (etc., etc.)...
It's safe to say this is a very, very personal issue.
One group meeting a week is dedicated to ensuring you are seeing traction with your personal core focus.
You'll get quality support to meet your personal goals.
I'm struggling with porn,
NEVERTHELESS,
I am worthy of love and belonging
NEVERTHELESS
Create a better-than-porn life.
The education, coaching, and community you need to get off the compulsive rollercoaster and grow into true sexual self-mastery.
Questions? Want to make sure this program is a good fit for you?
Schedule a free call with Taylor Chambers here (limited availability).
NEVERTHELESS is right for you if...
You don't want to view porn... but you still do.
Maybe you're viewing several times a week or just a few times a year... If you're feeling compulsive or not in charge of your own behavior, this program is for you.
You've tried to stop without success.
Maybe you've been white-knuckling on your own for years, or maybe you've been through several programs already. If all your efforts at stopping have only made you hopeless, then NEVERTHELESS is perfect for you.
You want to grow into fearless sexuality & self-mastery.
If you want to learn and grow into your own sexual nature - to bring good to your self and others, this program is the right place for you.
You're ready to change your emotional experience with porn.
If you want to let go of the shame, anger, punishment, and relational drama... and learn to act from your best self while you're still growing, this program is for you.
This program is NOT the right fit if...
If current sexual behavior is coercive or abusive...
Then this program is NOT the right fit for you. You'll need a higher level of care than is designed in this program. Please feel free to reach out for referrals to different providers.
If you can't tolerate others with values different from your own...
Then this program is NOT the right fit for you. Due to the personalized nature of the program, we support a variety of goals. Some may seek total sobriety, others to reduce compulsivity.
FAQs
Still have questions?
Schedule a free call with Taylor Chambers here to get your questions answered and see if the program will meet your specific needs.
I'm nervous about committing.
I want to join, but that's a lot of money.
What if I can't make the live coaching calls?
Will this help me stop looking at porn?
I've tried to quit so many times. Why will this be different?
I have a busy schedule. What's the time commitment?
Will this help if my issue is masturbation, not porn?
It feels too risky to try accepting my sexuality.
Is there any work for us as a couple? How can I include my spouse?
I've been out-of-control,
NEVERTHELESS,
today, I can choose.