The Good and the Free

Drop the porn.

Befriend your sexuality.

Become a better lover.

Live the VITAL LIFE.

LEARN HOW

Welcome to the brotherhood.

This is where good men find freedom from porn.

But more than that - this is where good men make peace with their sexual nature and enjoy it.

This is where good men learn the art of love and intimacy.

This is where men awaken their hearts to a life of meaning and adventure.

Glad you're here!

I'm Taylor Chambers.

I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist offering online education, coaching, and community to address unwanted porn use.

My early career training was in sex addiction and pornography addiction. I loved guiding men through a major life reset to gain sobriety, find recovery, and step up in their families.

But I didn't always love the rhetoric of addiction work and many clients needed something very different. So I began a quest to look for alternative perspectives to refocus more on:

Sexual health (not sexual repression)
Deep intimacy (beyond getting along)
Mindfulness (instead of mental lockdown)

If we were to hang out, I'd ask about the books on your nightstand, play an epic board game, hunt for petroglyphs, or hit up a concert.

Maybe some day we will!

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Cristi

“I love that you are changing the paradigm around recovery.”

David

"I feel as though I came across gold dust... invaluable."

John

“Taylor, this is very good stuff. You are truly doing God's work."

Colleen

“What you are doing is a blessing."

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Geoff

“Man, your writing is SO good 😊 Solid, brother!"

Justin

“I just thought that I’d encourage you that you're a fantastic email writer!

Not only are they actually worth reading, but I genuinely look forward to what you have to say when I get one!”

Everett

“I've really appreciated your content both in its substance, style, and the approach. I'm left feeling as if we've traveled a similar path though thousands of miles away and entirely unaware of each other :-).

Tears streamed down my face after reading yet another really resonant email from you today.”

Pete

“Always love these inspirational emails, Taylor. Each read is a nice pick-me-up.

In fact, I keep them in my own 'Taylor' folder. :)”

Matthew

“Really love these alternative mindsets/reactions.

As I've walked along in recovery the last couple years I've definitely found the gentle and compassionate approaches far more effective than any self berating!”

Matt

“Enjoy your comments, cultural references, and good humor Taylor.

Excellent advice and so well-written. Thanks.”

Neal

“Still quite impressed by the brief but brilliant essay posts you send out.

Seems to me like you could write a book with short chapters filled with these delightful ditties!”

Andrea

“This email was incredible- Such an incredible reminder for me.

Thank you- I always draw a lot and continue to draw a lot from your work- Thank you 🙏🏻”

Beau

“Your emails really inspire me and lift me up emotionally and spiritually.

Thank you so much for the time, effort and LOVE you put onto these emails.”

Aaron

“This is great. I needed to read this today. Thanks.”

Hannah

“That was a fabulous article, brother!!

You orchestrated some mental calisthenics to merge the topics and did so very effectively 😃. Well done!”

Geoff

“Great message, Taylor. Sure love your writing and your heart.

Your writing is so good that your emails are actually one of the few emails I look forward to receiving/reading :-) True story. Keep going!”

Shaun

“Just another thanks for your emails.

They do make a difference 👍”

Andrea

“This email was incredible- Such an incredible reminder for me.

Thank you- I always draw a lot and continue to draw a lot from your work- Thank you 🙏🏻”

Adam

“Hi Taylor, I want to express my appreciation for what are clearly and consistently unique and heartfelt messages.

Whenever I open one of your emails I find something that resonates with me. I am encouraged by the conviction and empathy that is evident in all your communications.”

Neal

“Again, a wonderfully written concise and very practical tool. Thank you for the time and energy you put into these emails.

I can’t wait for your book! When’s it coming? 😁”